How to Prevent an Affair
Much of my practice is oriented towards helping couples. One of the occupational hazards of this kind of work is dealing with the ugliness of affairs. These choices spare no …
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Oh, I’m Sorry, I’d Love To But I Won’t
How many times have you found yourself telling someone “No, I’m sorry, I can’t”? Perhaps you’ve said this after a friend has asked you to drive them to the airport …
Goals of Misbehavior
According to Alfred Adler all behavior is goal oriented. Nothing is random, all actions have purpose. Further, it is believed that children have a need to belong, and if that …
The Follower is Almost Always Wrong
When there are problems in how a couple resolves conflicts in their relationship, a common feature of the argument is that one partner follows the other when the “followee” is …
Is a Happy New Year Without Success Possible?
Happy New Year! I hope 2011 was a happy one for you and you’re off to a great start to 2012. The start of a new year, for many, is …
